Do you find yourself unfilled by the so-called pleasures of life, again and again, discovering how they don't last?

Where do we actually find happiness, if the temporary solutions aren't working?

 

Whether you’re a web designer, teacher, fire-fighter or Army officer, you are encouraged to keep checking things off the to-do list, amassing accomplishments and focusing your efforts on the future. There’s always something more you can do to further yourself at work: an extra project or responsibility you can take on, more schooling you can complete to ensure a promotion, or an additional investment to wager on just in case. And so you strive nonstop to exceed your goals, constantly playing catch-up with your ambitious to-do list.

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The problem comes, however, when we keep delaying our happiness in favor of getting more things done so that we can be even happier later—or so we think. This delaying process can go on forever, turning into workaholism, which damages the very success and happiness we are seeking.

The reason we are so hooked on getting things done is that we believe the payoff that comes from achievements—an award or a larger savings account—will ultimately lead to the biggest payoff of all: happiness. But it doesn’t. We have the illusion that the success, fame, money—fill in the blank—that we are chasing will bring us some kind of lasting fulfillment. We often expect that we’ll be happy when we get this or that project over with.

 

Different people at different times in their lives have been prompted to ask how they can find themselves.

This is especially common at times there is a conflict, these could be things like :

• Divorce

• Loss of job

• A breakup

• Getting older

• Moving through different phases in life

 

                                                         Parenting Do's & Don'ts

Parenting is a full-time job, full of joys, trials, challenges, and triumphs. There is no doubt that parenting can be rewarding and exhausting at the same time. No parent is perfect.

Parent-child relationships have a powerful effect on a child’s emotional well-being, basic coping and problem-solving abilities, and future capacity for relationships.

Through sensitive, responsive, and predictable care, young children can develop the skills they need to succeed in life.

 

                                                            How to Cope with Divorce

Even under the best circumstances, certain aspects of your divorce process are probably going to be difficult. At the end of the day, you’re dealing with a loss, and getting through that can be tough. With the right tools, information, and resources, you can learn how to deal with divorce in the healthiest way possible.

 

                                                        How to Become a Badass You

When you learn how to be a badass, you kiss goodbye to caring what others think. You don’t care about following the norm. You’re who you are and you own it! A badass is just a formidable person who’s somehow extremely intimidating and yet, so darn awesome! Everyone wants to be a badass.